So continuing on the marriage topic here, I thought I’d let you all in on a bit of a secret of mine.
I’m actually married already. Yes I’m only 16 but I’m married. And no its not b/c i got pregnant and we thought it was the best way to deal with it or anything like that.
It was actually arranged by my grandpa and my “husbands” grandpa way back in the day. I only learnt about it about a year or so ago and I officially got married and signed the papers on February 18 of this year.
I really didn’t want to get married, obviously b/c i hardly knew the guy and i just hated the idea of not even having control of my love life. But i thought it over and I could tell how happy it would make our grandparents and so i relented.
Our original plan and maybe the plan still running is to get divorced as soon as our grandparents pass away (touch wood). I mean i obviously don’t want them to pass away but thinking realistically, they are going to soon and then i can be free of the marriage.
But my thoughts have changed quite a bit or at least I’m more openminded about the whole thing after this summer when i went to Hong Kong where my grandparents, relatives and husband live.
My husband is 18 and from what i see, a complete player and cassinova. He’s really smart but the real problem with him is that i can’t tell when hes being serious or just joking around.

